



What I learned shocked me:











Constantly attracted to emotionally unavailable, inconsistent men
Making excuses for bad behavior and hoping they'll change
Feeling anxious and insecure in relationships, always waiting for the other shoe to drop
Staying way too long in relationships that aren't serving you
Friends expressing concern about your dating choices but feeling defensive
Feeling like healthy relationships are "boring" compared to the drama you're used to

Naturally attracted to emotionally available, consistent partners who prioritize you
Recognizing red flags immediately and walking away without second-guessing yourself
Feeling calm and secure with the right person, knowing what genuine compatibility feels like
Setting clear boundaries and only dating men who respect them from day one
Having supportive friends who celebrate your healthy relationship choices
Finding deep fulfillment in stable love and wondering why you ever thought drama was exciting





